Everyone who claims Christianity agrees that God is a lover. Inside of that demographic the majority of us believe that we are to act like Jesus would act, even if we don’t wear the bracelet that reminds us. But within that smaller demographic, how many of us hold onto hate against others even though we tell everyone God loves them and we are trying to be like Him.
Maybe I shouldn’t use the word “hate” because it scares people.
A good Christian knows that hate is terrible and we just “strongly dislike” people; never ever hate though. I am not here to define the line between dislike and hate. That doesn’t matter. If God loves someone and we “strongly dislike” them, there is still a certain inequality between God’s ways and ours.
The question isn’t “How do I make them better/nicer/more polite/less annoying?”
The question is how do I adjust my view to accept them as God does.
(This is the part of the essay where I incorporate a Bible verse that nobody thinks relates.)
Ephesians 6:12 says “For we are not fighting against flesh-and-blood enemies, but against evil rulers and authorities of the unseen world, against mighty powers in this dark world, and against evil spirits in the heavenly places.”
Most of us have heard this verse before, and it is common practice to apply it to such things as how to get ready for evangelism, how to lead people to Christ, and how to prevent earthquakes. While all of these applications are fine by me, I think we are missing the easy everyday application. Instead of thinking about the problems with a person, why don’t we think about the greed, pride, bitterness, jealousy, etc. that affects their life, as well as our own view and deduction of them.
Here is the breakdown.
- God loves everyone
- I “strongly dislike” Certain Individual
- I am supposed to be like God
- God loves + I strongly dislike = Nonsense
- God tells us the battle is not against flesh and blood
- Certain Individual is made of flesh and blood
- Battle is not against certain individual
- God says spiritual forces are what we are fighting against
- I am affected by spiritual forces
- Certain Individual is affected by spiritual forces
Maybe I am on the same team as Certain Individual, and we are both just struggling to recognize those spiritual forces that are affecting each of our actions and views.